You’ve met seemingly great people before. But sooner or later, things fall apart, your dream date disappoints you, and you are back to square one.
You have a pretty good mental list of what you want and don’t want in a romantic partner. But when you think you’ve found it, you just end up heartbroken and alone.
You want to love and be loved by someone who will be the center of your universe, and you theirs. The kind of person that makes you feel instantly at ease the moment they walk into a room.
Like whatever is going on, you know that everything will be okay now that he or she is here.
You want a person who is wise and emotionally intelligent, but who’s also compassionate and loving. They emanate an energy of relaxed confidence and lightheartedness. They can make you laugh but they’re whom you want to turn to when you’re in need of a shoulder to cry on.
If you were to have this person as your soulmate, lover and life partner, you’d never ever dream of leaving.
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But after endless failed dates, disappointing relationships, and lonely nights, you are starting to wonder:
Does this person even exist?
Well, after counseling yearning singles for over 4 decades I can tell without hesitation:
But you need to know how to spot one.
Extraordinary romantic partners like this are often just ordinary people, but they see things differently.
They understand that it’s not what you’ve accomplished in this world, or what you own, or how great you can compete that makes you a successful relationship partner, but who you are as a person, and how you make others feel in your presence.
These are the Keepers. And whether or not you’re aware of it, you’ve spent your entire life searching for one.
You’ve longed for a love that’s transformative and soul-satisfying. Unfortunately, the relationships you’ve had until now have fallen short of that. They haven’t stood the test of time or even gotten off the ground.
Perhaps it’s because of bad timing. Or because your partner disappointed you or you disappointed them. Or maybe they didn’t see long term potential with you.
There’s always something missing, in yourself or in your partner.
Sincere and hardworking relationship seekers like you tell me these kinds of things every day. They are discouraged. They throw their arms up in frustration,
Perhaps you’ve started to lose hope that a lasting, deeply gratifying love is even in your future.
After all, you watch other relationships around you grow more distant and abrasive. These relationships start out seeming so idyllic, but underneath are buried resentments, anger and criticism. Before long, you start hearing how unhappy these couples are, or that someone cheated or lied or simply “checked out” of the relationship.
You don’t want to fall in love with someone just to have that happen to you, too.
You don’t want to settle.
You want a love that you’ll treasure with a person who excites and inspires you.
You don’t want it to be “easy” because easy can become “boring” over time.
You don’t want it to be a stress-inducing mess, either.
You want a relationship that will make both your lives happier, and motivate you to become better people in the process.
You want a heroic love.
But you’ll be the first person to admit that finding the kind of partner with whom you can have that kind of relationship isn’t easy.
You know, because you’ve tried, and failed, many times.
Maybe along the way you’ve gotten advice from questionable “experts” with flashy promises. They’ll tell you that you’ll find “The One” if you focus on certain qualities:
“Polish your external package. Master your poise. Then put yourself in a target-rich environment of people who have hobbies similar to yours. Then all will end well.”
Well, it doesn’t. That focus on the superficial and pre-packaged has not worked out very well for you. It’s no wonder…
As nice as chemistry and common interests are, they are NOT the basis for lasting love.
So, if being physically attracted to each other and liking the same kinds of things aren’t predictors of long-term relationship success and happiness, what is?
I believe I have found the answer.
Over my 40-year career and after 100,000 hours of counseling couples, I’ve observed two kinds of people.
The ones that sabotage their relationships aren’t aware of how their behavior is slowly destroying their relationships.
They aren’t sensitive to your needs, so you keep telling them how you’re unhappy but nothing changes. They have destructive habits that sometimes turn into addictions. They hold back their true feelings and then drop bombshells on you when you least expect it. The list goes on…
On the other hand, in relationships where partners feel comforted, loved, secure and valued, both partners seem to have something in common.
These 12 personal characteristics reliably predict long-term relationship happiness.
It doesn’t matter if there are very few common interests between you.
It doesn’t matter what age you are, or how long you’ve been together.
It doesn’t matter if you’ve experienced “love at first sight” or you were friends who grew to love each other over time.
If you and your partner have these 12 core characteristics, or even if you’re in the process of developing and working on these characteristics, you are virtually guaranteed to love, grow and take delight in each other for a lifetime if you so choose.
You may hang in there together for a while, but over time it will be very difficult for you to fully love that person and vice versa.
If you know what these characteristics are, how to spot them in a partner and how to cultivate them in yourself, you would have the secret formula for finding and keeping the kind of transformative love that can stand the test of time and bring you great joy.
You’d stop wasting precious time and emotional energy on relationships that simply can’t work, and invest your time into those that can.
(And you’ll stop inadvertently scaring off the keepers you meet… because if you aren’t a keeper, you can’t keep a keeper!)
For most people, having access to this kind of insider knowledge can be a game changer when it comes to love.
This is why I’ve developed my audio program, Finding Keepers.
In it, I reveal the 12 characteristics crucial to relationship success and long-lasting love. Plus, I’ll take you through a process that will allow you to recognize those characteristics in yourself and others.
This will empower you to recognize a Keeper when you meet one, and eliminate any prospects that may look good on the surface, but are not in fact, a Keeper.
Maybe you’re currently in a relationship where some of these characteristics are lacking in your partner. If that’s the case, there’s good news. The relationship can change for the better as long as you have the right information to begin with and know the steps to take to steer the relationship in the right direction.
I’ll also provide advice on how you can develop these characteristics in yourself, so that you can become the very kind of remarkable partner you hope to have in your life. A partner no one would dream of abandoning!
It doesn’t matter what age you are, what your physical appearance is, whether you’re successful financially, what you’ve been taught to believe or witnessed when you grew up.
All it takes is knowledge and commitment to change.
In Finding Keepers, you’ll learn how to attract and keep the kind of love you really deserve.
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When you can recognize a Keeper, you won’t waste valuable time on someone who may never make you happy or commit to a real relationship.
At the same time, being the kind of person that no one wants to lose requires a continuous commitment to being reborn, in the presence of what you already know.
It means you must always be ready to be an emotional immigrant, carrying your beautiful bag of treasures from the past, into new possibilities in the future that would never happen were you not willing to risk that journey.
Finding Keepers can help you follow through with that commitment.
As you learn to recognize the Keepers and get close to becoming a Keeper yourself, you may lose and gain people along the way. The people who are attached to old patterns may not be able to come with you on your journey. But those that are on the same path of transformation would never risk losing you.
In the end, you’ll find that the destination – that soul-satisfying love – has been worth the effort and time you’ve invested along the way.
That’s the ultimate reward for your brave journey to heroic love.